It's a normal thing to do because it's like a routine and it feels weird if we don't comment about others. Given the consequences, these things never do really stop because we are not aware of what we are talking about, to us maybe it's harmless but it's not. I'm one myself and seriously, old habit dies hard. It's so true. Keeping silent could be such a pain at times. Still, it helps not to talk also because we never know when the cycle will come to us. No one is perfect so gossiping is sure to occur. Don't be shocked when you hear rumors spreading about you too. It's hard or impossible to prevent these things but we could avoid it by not saying too much even though we want to. It's hard but do give it a try, I did, but not all the times also (sad you know.) this is because there are also people out there talking about you and you just don't know about it. So, beware before opening your mouth to the public.
Like a quote i read recently:
~you know my name~
~not my story~
~you heard what i've done~
~not what i've been through~
(i really love all these quotes)
Well, it's so true. Often, people just listen and take in what they want and need to know without considering that person's feelings and what really happened at that time. I've been through that road before. It really hurts you know? people just attack you even when they don't know anything. but as time passes, somehow the truth will come out and eventually everything will be cleared. but the time cannot be mentioned exactly because only God knows. All these are God's will and no matter how much we are hurt, something always happen for a reason even though we don't understand it.
that's all for tonight, not feeling well, under the weather.. good night.
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